If we really want to have great sex with partners, our focus has to be on what their sexuality is authentically and really like, not just the ways it entertains us or reminds us of our own.Įjaculation, no matter what kind of body is doing it, is a term we use to just describe when fluid is ejected from the body in some way.
While there's nothing wrong with that, it's also not so realistic, nor does it really leave room for women's sexuality and sexual response to be just what it is, rather than a mimicry of mens sexuality or mens sexual response. Too, it often seems like one reason some guys are so into it is that they see it as an aspect of a woman's sexuality that reminds them of their own sexuality. Our sexuality should be a reflection of who we are, and what our bodies, uniquely, do, not who or what someone else wants. Or when we or others are asking things of anyone's body which that particular body may or may not do. Obviously, we're all likely to experience some level of novelty with sex and partners, and that's okay - and it's certainly okay to think things bodies can do are cool! - but I think we also have to watch the line we're walking where novelty crosses the line and becomes or is objectification.
I get the impression that some guys, particularly younger guys, do see female ejaculation as a cool trick: as a sexual novelty. Something our bodies do a partner thinks is awesome can be something we do not, or do not yet, feel comfortable with.
When using a search engine such as Google, Bing or Yahoo check the safe search settings where you can exclude adult content sites from your search results Īsk your internet service provider if they offer additional filters īe responsible, know what your children are doing online.What you're asking about is most typically called female ejaculation (even though not everyone with a vulva identifies as female, nor does everyone who identifies as female have a vulva), and often colloquially called "squirting."īefore I say anything else, I want to say these four things first: 1) That does not generally happen just "because someone orgasms so much."Ģ) It is not a circus trick: in other words, it is largely involuntary, and not something everyone can do, or do because a partner likes or wants it.ģ) Not all people ejaculate, and even for those who do, most do not ejaculate all the time, with every incidence of sex, or with any given kind of sex, even when they have several orgasms or have a great orgasm.Ĥ) Not all people are comfortable with or enjoy ejaculating, regardless of how their partners feel about it. Use family filters of your operating systems and/or browsers Other steps you can take to protect your children are: More information about the RTA Label and compatible services can be found here. Parental tools that are compatible with the RTA label will block access to this site.
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